i find myself in the rare position of asking the readers of my blog, especially those who are curious about dominant/submissive (d/s) relationships, to read someone else's blog!  what is the world coming to...lol

an excellent discussion of the nature of d/s relationships and advice for those considering involving themselves in this alternative psycho-sexual behavior is contained in today's blog entitled 'curious and interested in..." by misterjax.  i strongly urge those curious or interested in d/s to read it and the other excellent materials available.  there is a rich vein of information available online, in libraries, in bdsm chatrooms and similar forums before even considering pursuing d/s activity.  not to mention that there are some of us who are willing to teach and mentor those who are relative "newbies".

i am a dom male who is restricted to online only relationships and cybererotic chats in deference to my happy marriage to ms. bear for over 30 years. with her knowledge and acceptance, i engage in a wide variety of cyber activities, many involving some degree of d/s.  i have chatted with a wide variety of women, young and old, experienced and naive, knowledgeable and clueless.....  so i am very familiar with the issues raised in misterjax's cogent blog. and you, too, might find that additional information will save you from wasted time, effort and unpleasant experiences.

anyway, take my advice and arm yourself with knowledge and you may protect yourself from disappointment and harm, both physical and emotional.

i am

rick the bear