I often receive messages from married or otherwise attached men.  Comments are not objectionable, however I must inform everyone that I will never meet with a married/attached man and please do not ask me or try to change my mind.  It is not that I am judging you, but that I have difficulty finding spare time to meet people with my own hectic schedule.  That having benn said, I am vehemently opposed to and disapprove of cheating, but I also understand that some married/attached men are part of a swinging couple and are not necessarily cheating.  Also, on another level, if I were to meet someone with whom "more than sex" became mutually desireable, it is quite obvious that it would not be feasible with a man who is already attached.  I am not opposed to the "no strings attached" or "friends with benefits" scenario, but to completely eliminate the possibility of anything more kinda destroys the fantasy.  Ya know?  It is always nice to know that there is a possibility for options lurking somewhere in the background.