The ole phrase "you reap what u sew" comes to mind. If your going to be sarcastic in your words, expect it back! I have found honesty is like VISA it's everywhere you want to be. That's just me. Good luck though.......

I am 52 yrs old, a bbw and have been here at SexyAds for 7 years. My experience has been that LOTS of men have a desire to make love to a large, beautiful woman and think they're sexy, but in reality they just can't make themselves be seen with one in public. They're too afraid of what their peers would say. Men get lots of shit from others when his girlfriend is BBW. How nice it would be if men could have the guts to stand up for what they believe instead of being cowards.

I think you're very intelligent, you are beautiful and you deserve a man who will cherish you. Good luck in your search.

Yeah krazy, I enjoy your blogs, thanks for your comment but I think you missed the point I was trying to make. I've posted lots of "honest" ads... pretty much get the same responses either way.  Thanks Jessamine, I admire and respect you as well.

I think it's better for you to be honest about what you want. The big reason is that if you don't, the people who read your ad won't know what it is you are really looking for. The other thing is that if your sarcasm is picked up, and it can be noticed, it can make you seem a little bitter, or just making of fun the guys on this site.

Some of the stuff you have in this entry would make a good ad. The section about bird watching and music would be great. It lets others know who you are and what you are looking for.

Hey Nobodies Girl,

I totally LOL'd reading your ad just now!

It's exactly the type of thing I've been tempted to write myself just haven't had the nerve.

I know what you mean - it doesn't matter what you say in your ad, some guys will just look for a leg to hump no matter.

My experience is that we get what we ask for:  sarcastic ads attract sarcastic people - honest ads attract honest people.  

Heya Nobodies,

I actually think a sarcastic ad is great as a filter of men without senses of humour, they get it or they dont....pretty easy to pick em out eh?  You have a great sense of humour, so why not share it and see what  happens, I think your profile is hilarious!  Think of it as a way to be able to tell the duds from the dudes.....Good luck!

i just read your ad, I do not have a problem with it...I could read between the lines and see where you were coming from. I feel either type of ad is fine as long as you are comfortable with it.  I sometimes think people are way too serious on here...but I am known to swim up stream...

That's a good one NG, No I don't think men read our ads... or if they do, they don't pay attention..   I'm very honest in my ad and that's how I feel...  I say NO Married/Attached men... So who Tickles me most? Yep, you guessed it Married men. Then they wonder why they don't get a reply.. Duhh

Sirmarkington, I have to disagree with you on your answer.. you said We Get what we ask for, honest ads attract honest people.. What a laugh !! lol  If that's the case after reading my ad why do married men answer my ad? Just Curious..  I basically think on here Men do exactly what they want to do..  Because they can...  I wonder if some of the comments some men make on here if they would ever walk up to a strange woman and say that to them in person?  No Way in Hell...  so why do you think it's ok to say what you want to on here.?  Cause you can hide behind a screen, and no one will ever know..  huh?

NG, I agree with you on a lot of things you say..(except I do play video games  lol)..  So who really knows what to do on here.. Just be who we are and  see what happens.. So I wish you good luck,  and you post whatever kind of ad you want to, If someone is really interested they will get in touch with you..   My worth..