Awwwww Red I was there and what does that asshole know.  He is a major pain in da ass and has a tendancy to cause trouble.  Mr Perfect so he thinks buttttttttt surpise , he couldn't be more wrong.  Yer friends are real and they love ya gal hugsssssssss and I am one.

The person you are referring to is just so full of himself and he knows nothing about children or being a parent so he has no right to comment on anything that concerns children..If more people were better at watching out for their children then things would not be so scary out there..My kids used to think I was too overprotected when they were young but I told them I didn't care all it took was some person to come and sweep them into their car and take them away and I wasn't going to let that ever happen to them..They are the most precious things in this world to me and if I ever lost anyone of them I would be devasted...

As far as you having fake friends Bullpuckeys..You have some very good friends and we both know it Me being one of them and when you call me momma Gold E I am proud that you would want me to be your mom cyber or not...

I love you darling and he can go to the devil as far as Im concerned and hes on my iggy list and will stay there forever lol...

C

Fav babaieeee , lixxxxx huggs , kisses and gropes...Sorry I missed last nites episode hun..I definetly have more than 2 cents to throw in on this one..I myself am a parent..there isnt anything that I would not do for mine. Losing a child is devastating no matter what the circumstances are...DEVASTATING !. You are rite Fav, if a person does not have a child of ther own there is NO WAY FUCKIN POSSIBLE they could know what is felt..What pisses me off is that there is someone in here that would use that as a weapon to try to demoralize and humiliate you as  not only a parent , grandparent or even as a person as a whole..What a fucken LOP. Is your life that fucked up that you have to try and pass judgement on other peoples lives cuz your shit aint worth mentioning? Get a freaking life and stop attacking my friends..when ya do that you do that to me..period...Man I'm fucken bent ! ok , ok I am done...Fav babieee, ignorance is apparently a virtue to this person hun, so dont even give him or it another thought..Not worth your time hun..I am soo sorry I wasnt there for ya babes...but I am now..and yes FAV...I AM YOUR FRIEND AND I DONT GIVE A FLYING FUCK WHO KNOWS IT !

Pupp   

Dear Fake Friend,BWAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAAAHH!

Fav 

 ya can ALWAYS use the iggy OR  fire back and give any ashsole what ya get thrown at ya.  YOU kow yer loved AND respected in here and as for whomever that Asshole bald Laden nazi  was,  fuck him.  YOU can't even begin to count your friends and his are his hands and ... well  I dunno know how his friends are.
MUUUUAHH Fav!!!

Ok frist off, to the Mr.Asshole. Shut up you know nothing about what it is to have kids or to worry about there safety.When you have kids then you  can  open your mouth and voice a opinion till then shut the hell up. Oh the other thing, about her having fake freinds, well I am one of her friends and that really makes me pissed off you say I am not. Before you start running your mouth, why dont you pracitice what you preach mister two face woman chaser. You have made a very bad mistake going after her and it is going to bite you in the ass Red is one of the sweetest friends  I have she has been there through the bad. If it wasn't for her I wouldn't have meet the man I have fallen in love with and plan to be with the rest of my life. So by you  attacking her you have attacked me to. We love you sis and we have your back. Love Scottishlover & WantTo6t9

Hmmmm dontcha LOVE it when someone pipes up on a subject they know NOTHING about???   Strap a child to your chest while working outside????  I think not.  Let me tell you something - When I had my son - I found out just how much love my heart could hold....  I would do ANYTHING for him and ANYTHING to protect him.  You don't have to be a parent to have love for a child.... but you have to be a ASSCLOWN to say they are overprotected.... good lord...   As  far as me being fake LMFAO that's a good one - I love ya Red - you and I hit it off from the second we met !!  your MY SBBBBBBBBBBBBBB!!!  xoxoxo   

My my my, where to start... I suppose first off is hugs hun, on your loss, and for having to endure abuse over it- which is unconscionable.

Its' hard to fathom a mind finds challenging someone with personal, tragic experiences, in an abusive way. There are times when being right or wrong is secondary to compassion.

Personally, I'd report him... we've had profiles removed for simply being an obnoxious wanker. I'd have to read the logs [if I was Kiwi- luv ya hun, yer job sux:P], but this is deliberately insulting in a personal way about something far worse than the usual name calling because nobody will pc them.

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Soapbox time: Chat has every race, creed, color, religion, origin, you name it. Its' an international melting pot.  The ONLY reason chat works is because we try and respect others right to have a wrong opinion [yes, we all know I am always right:P].... Anything goes, but when someone is obviously offended to some degree... LAY OFF. There's nothing you have to say thats' more important than all of us getting along, than avoiding hurt feelings.

Simple rule, we use it everyday , applies here too.

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Its' ironic you will get banned for discussing sex with children, minors arent even allowed.... but no rules I know of other kinds of child abuse.  Then again,  most of us have common sense, compassion, and try and get along?

hugs again hun... iggy the bastard if they dont ban him.  This too shall pass. love ya:)

Hey darlin'- ignore the moron!  Why would anyone on earth care what he possibly has to say about anything anyway? I mean really! He has NO KIDS- so...really, WTF does he know about them? Any moron that thinks it's OK to strap a child to their chest while they mow the lawn is a few cards short of a full deck anyway, so why pay attention to anything he has to say?

By the grace of God he will never be able to bear children of his own -let's all just pray for that! As for fake friends....well, hmm! I guess if I am fake and you are fake...then it won't be cheating if we screw Red honey! Soo...come on! LMAO..hugs and hang in there!

I think I'm going to find this difficult to write down, but I thought I'd have a go (so please excuse me if I start to go into pretentious mode!LOL!!)...and I wanted to write something in support of Y.F.R.

You know yourselves...before you have children, you think you know it all, you're self possessed (and I don't mean that in a critical or a derogatory sense, that's just the way you are!), you have all the answers, everything is generally black or white, you only really care about yourself, you think you're Immortal and Indestructable, your emotions, your wants, your desires are all pretty stable and solid and usually centred on, around or about YOU...even when you come to thinking about having children (for whatever reason(s)) seems simple. I mean, it can't be that difficult really, can it?...everybody does it and have been doing it for years...What's so difficult in that! BAH!

...and then you have your first child and KABLOOM!...It all go's sailing out the window!...in nano-seconds...literally!!

You find that your entire Universe has been turned upside down and EVERYTHING has changed. Your perspective and priorities in your little world have taken a Mega shift and are now focused on this wee helpless life, this little piece of you, lying in front of you...FOREVER! (and in my humble opinion, for the better...you reach a different level!...and probaly another level when you have G'children too!!)

Nobody, can ever really explain the joyous, fulfilling feeling of that and neither can I in this comment.

So, before I start to dissapear up my own arse with my own pretentiousness, I think I'd better stop...suffice to say Y.F.R., I'd just do what the others have said here and Ignore the fellah...he just can't quite understand, appreciate or grasp the concept, (or likes to wind people up for the hell of it!), probably like most us couldn't really B.C. (Before Children).

Cheers Comrades,

Gr8XX

I desperately wanted children and couldn't have them. Not having birthed children doesn't automatically mean someone doesn't know what it's like to raise children or love them. If that were the case, there would be no adoptions. Children are a precious gift. Maybe I know that as much as anyone because I couldn't have them.

The fucktard idiot that said that shit just doesn't CARE! Like other aspects of his life, he's severely lacking. You must consider the source. Personally, I can't wait until the day that his ass will leave this website.

Are you a Nazi? --NO!!!

Not if you think tha a childs safety is of the utmost importance.

I struggle to keep my anger in check when I hear that some lame excuse of a parent neglected to keep thier childs safety as a priority and that the child payed the ultimate price. Even when the child survives a traumatic experience one can not help to feel the pain that the child will have to endure for what may be the rest of their lives because two individuals decided to have intercourse.

Every child needs to have an opportunity to make their own decisions and we must do everything we can to help them be productive and positive individuals in this world!

"Violence begets violence" was said before. With that being said, "Compassion begets compassion". Let us be compassionate and good people.

 We will all stray but, if the heart is true, one will find they way.

Sorry if a rambled but, Red, I could not agree with you more!

I feel sorry for those that oppose this thought and I hope that they can be helped before it is too late for a child or them.

Red,

Doesn't Mr. asshole know that our kids are precious cargo and also our future. Maybe he has forgotten what his parents did to keep him safe when he was younger. I would say that he is one of those people that would never tell his mom and dad that he loved them.  Doesn't he realise that there are people out there that want to harm our kids. Over my dead body.

Loves you Red.

Your fake friend from down under.